• Subscribe
  • Apple Podcasts
  • Spotify
  • Google Podcasts
May 08, 2016

Ep.917: Why Should We Love Our Enemies?

Knowing the "why" and "how" of truly loving your enemies

If you do not have a password, please subscribe to our FREE Premium Content for the Full Edition version of CQ Rewind. The welcome message will contain your password, and a reminder will be sent each week when the CQ Rewind is available online for you to read, print, or download.


Is Jesus teaching us to be pushovers?

How can our blaming someone be good and godly?

Is sparing our enemies retaliation enough to get God's attention?

What if it's not possible to bless our enemies?

Theme Scripture: Matthew 5:44-45

We live in a time of great contradiction. There are voices that shout, rant and insist for all in our society to embrace and accept everyone no matter what their choices in life are and no matter what their actions in life may be. Their message in many ways is framed as one of love – love for those who are opposite, love for those who are different. Then there are those like myself who say that while I am willing to accept and love people regardless of their choices, I will not embrace anything I believe is not moral or righteous. I will love the person but not the action. For this I have been called a "hater" by those who preach that you should embrace those who are different than you. Jesus told us to love our enemies, but what exactly does that mean? Am I not loving enough? Do I need to change?

Continue Reading

Love your enemies. It is a principle for living that is looked up to and striven for by some and laughed and scorned by others. No matter how you look at it, loving ones enemies is a difficult and rare occurrence because it involves some level of acceptance we are not inclined to want to give.

There is a lot of talk around about accepting and embracing those who are different than you – those who in some ways would represent an enemy or opposition. Not only is there talk, but there is a movement as well – a movement that demands an unequivocal acceptance and embracing of people and their alternative behaviors. At first glance this movement appears to be founded in love and respect for all, and that would certainly be a good thing. The problem arises when those of us, who for the sake of moral belief and conviction, are willing to accept peopl, but not embrace behavior that we deem inappropriate or immoral. It is here where, based on personal experience, we suddenly become enemies who are to be shut down and ridiculed. ...Hardly an example of the very acceptance that this movement claims to preach!

Jesus lived and taught the concept of loving our enemies. He not only told us to love our enemies, he told us to pray for them and even to bless them. Wait a minute. Bless them? How do you bless someone who you think is wrong? How do you bless someone who does evil? How do you bless someone who wants to hurt you? Isn’t this going a little too far?

Our May 8th, 2016 broadcast entitled “Why Should We Love Our Enemies?” focused on these very questions. We not only examined what Jesus was saying about loving our enemies, but we took significant time learning the why and how of what he said. And no surprise, it turns out that in Jesus’ words and actions there are several profound lessons for every day application waiting to be put into practice. Jesus didn’t make loving our enemies an easy task but he did make it a desirable and attainable one.

One lesson that is an important building block for learning to love our enemies is that of blame. Sometimes we think that in order to love our enemies we need to not blame them for wrongs they have committed but this is not right. Blame is not only appropriate it is a necessary step in love. That being said, we need to understand how to blame in a godly way. On top of this we need to learn the other necessary steps that help us to complete the process of loving our enemies. Check out the broadcast and see how loving our enemies can not only work but can enhance our everyday lives!


Watch Our Episode Preview

0 replies

Leave your comment

Leave a Reply

Your email address will not be published. Required fields are marked *

Related Episodes

social habits

Do My Habits Glorify God? (Part II) Social Habits

Reviewing the power of our public habits and how to change them

How Do We Cope With Feeling Shame?

Understanding the role shame should and should not play in our lives

Should Christians Fast?

The how, when and why of appropriate Christian fasting

Have We Lost Our Ability to Honor One Another? (Part II)

The how and why of giving and receiving true respect for one another

Have We Lost Our Ability to Honor One Another? (Part I)

Biblical examples of how honor can and should permeate our lives
happily ever after

Can My Marriage Be a “Happily Ever After”?

Understanding how to adjust perspective to make a marriage strong

How Can I Doubt My Doubts? (Part II)

Learning to cope with differing kinds of doubt in our Christian walk
new Christian

I’m a New Christian! Now What?

Uncovering the many “need to know” aspects of living for Jesus
forgiving others

How Do I Know If I Have Really Forgiven Someone?

The depth, power and appropriate applications of true forgiveness

Does Patience Really Matter?

Uncovering a deep and life-changing facet of Christian patience
Christian fellowship

How Strong Are My Relationships? (Part III)

Building strong and effective brotherhood relationships in Christ