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February 09, 2026

Ep.1423: What Kind of Self-Control Is Really Required of a Christian? (Christian Character Series Part V)

Learning what drives the development of true Christlike self-control

CHAPTERS

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How does Jesus model self-control even in something as simple as choosing not to eat?


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What does Paul teach about training our desires like an athlete?


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How do we surrender our control in favor of God's will?


Theme Scripture: 2 Peter 1:6-7

This fourth rung in Peter’s “virtue ladder” from 2 Peter 1:5‑7 is self‑control, the "allegiance of our passions." The first three rungs—faith, moral excellence and knowledge, deal primarily with internal transformation. Self‑control is the pivot point where that inner work begins to show up in real‑world choices. The Greek word for this conveys mastery, inner power and dominion over oneself.

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before in order to actually bring us towards true daily discipleship. We now continue this character development process by looking into the fourth step up towards Christlikeness.

This fourth rung in Peter’s “virtue ladder” from 2 Peter 1:5‑7 is self‑control, the "allegiance of our passions." The first three rungs—faith, moral excellence and knowledge, deal primarily with internal transformation. Self‑control is the pivot point where that inner work begins to show up in real‑world choices. The Greek word for this conveys mastery, inner power and dominion over oneself.

For Christians, this begins with preventing harmful or unproductive thoughts from becoming actions, and culminates in actively choosing what is spiritual, wholesome and Christlike. Our discipline requires self‑examination: identifying what naturally pulls us off course so we can learn to make adjustments.

The self-control of an athlete running a race

Paul’s athletic metaphors in 1 Corinthians 9 highlight three components of self-control: intentional focus on the goalembracing necessary limitations and wholehearted perseverance. Like a trained athlete, we as Christians must make many daily small, disciplined choices that strengthen spiritual “muscle memory.” Self-control also shapes how we view and treat others, enabling us to respond with grace rather than instinctive frustration.

It’s important to recognize that self-control is not a standalone virtue, and it stabilizes the entire structure of our Christian characters. Without knowledge, self-control becomes directionless; without self-control, perseverance becomes impossible. When rooted in faith, moral excellence, and knowledge, self-control opens the door to genuine spiritual growth and Christlike living.

Key Takeaways

  • Self-control is the “allegiance of our passions,” the disciplined governing of our impulses and desires.
  • It is the pivot point where inner transformation becomes outward behavior.
  • True self-control begins with restraint and culminates in choosing what is spiritually beneficial.
  • The Apostle Paul’s athletic imagery teaches focus, limitation and perseverance as essential components.
  • Self-control shapes how we respond to others, reflecting Christ rather than our impulses.
  • It stabilizes the entire virtue ladder and enables the next step: perseverance.
 

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